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How upsetting is it for a guy to witness a severe spanking? Some people say they laughed at the sight of siblings or peers getting spanked painfully (or were laughed at if they were the unlucky one), but some guys don't think it's funny at all to see this happen. Does a guy's capacity for empathy differ in this context? Have there been cases where severe spanking produced a "second hand" traumatic experience? | My sister and I were spanked as guys. I don't think we laughed at each other when it happened. But we weren't scarred over it either.
I guess what do you consider a severe spanking??
But no, we've never been traumatized because of it. Not in the slightest... | How do you give a severe spanking? Looking for tips for a hard adult spanking. I'm an experienced spanker and trust me..she's used to getting spanked, but I'd like a few tips for an especially memorable session. Ideally the best answer would name the most overall severe implement(s) and a brief summary of how the session should go. Start bare bottom? jeans first then bare? start with hand then to implement? Note: this is for a consenting Dom/sub relationship between two adults, if you don't like spanking...don't post. | | For a severe spanking, go bare bottom from the start with the subject bent over a piece of furniture - clothing lessens the impact, otk doesn't allow for as forceful a swing, and lying flat on a bed or table doesn't stretch the skin of the bottom. As to implement, it depends whether you want a short or long session. A rattan cane is quite possibly the most severe implement, but can't be used for very many strokes without breaking the skin. Something leather like a Canadian prison strap (large leather strap with holes and a wooden handle) would be the best choice for the longest session. If you want a wooden paddle for a medium length session, get one with both holes and narrow V-grooves. | Cure for a severe spanking fetish? Its really a burden,I get the ladies who for the most part,are anti-spank when foreplay is concerned. Most at best tolerate the formality that no matter what I must have before we get into other things. And as most women are submissive,getting spanked goes beyond their limits,which I'm respectful of. I am a "switch" as well,and that makes matters much worse. Any idea's? | | Just keep dating until you find the woman who is into spanking as much as you. She is out there just keep looking. Good Luck my spanking friend! | Is severe spanking as painful as scalding? For example, if resulting skin inflammation (redness) is similar, does that reflect a similar degree of pain intensity? | I host a website, www.nopaddle.com, about school paddling as physical abuse, sexual abuse, and sexual harassment.
As many have said, "abuse is abuse," so I'm not so sure I like this type of comparison. As some abuse survivors have stated, it makes no difference whether a guy drowns in 7 feet of water or 20 feet or 137 feet.
After some reflection, my answer is "yes," spanking can be as painful as scalding, and the physical damage can also be the same. There are cases of paddling where skin has been ripped off from the flesh, and even cases where the skin is not broken but where the vertebrae have been broken and lifetime spinal problems ensued. Spanking with a paddle was actually invented in US slavery, and there are many slave accounts where slaves were beaten untilt their muscles turned to jelly, which indicates a severe degree of lifetime internal injuries, even without the skin breaking. (Which it typically did break in those types of beatings anyway).
The fact is "spanking" is undefined and immeasurable violence that frequently escalates or gets out of control, and the victims are generally smaller and unable to defend themselves. In some ways "spanking" might even create worse pain than scalding -- even if both are severe, as the spanking is a long, continuous, pain producing process that just keeps escalating, in some cases right until unconsciousness, while in scalding the pain is instantaneous and the body quickly releases endorphins and such.
But without knowing the severity of either there is no good way to compare. You can have mild scalding and mild hitting that both produce temporary redness or maybe welts, and both can escalate to severe lifetime injuries pretty quickly.
Note bruses are from ruptured interal blood vessels, and many medical problems can result from extensive bruising of severe beatings. There are also many potential back and whiplash problems from "spanking" and beating, and as I note often, there is also a sexual abuse component built into typical spanking that often attacks a guy's psychological well being far beyond the physical trauma, and is often a motivation for exploitation hidden as "discipline" by the spankers, particularly when the spanker is not a biological parent.
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Jeff1844@aol.com | Do you think a Spanking Ban woudl actually increase guy abuse? I do, if spanking were illegal, then C.P.S. would have their hands full with cases where guyren were just given a few swats, or not a severe enough spanking to leace any bruises or marks or cause any sort of injury. And as a result, they would be diverted from cases where there was REAL abuse occuring (and yes, there is a difference between spanking and beating). So i think a spanking ban would actually make guy abuse much more common, and make it much harder for C.P.S. to help guyren who are actually abused. Also, the police might be diverted from legitimate cases when they got calls because a guy got spanked. What do you think?
By the way, do they have any problems like this in countries where spanking is illegal? | Sure it would, can you imagine how the currently overworked social workers case loads would skyrocket? They'd be running around like a chicken with it's head cut off.
You make excellent points, REAL cases of guy abuse will get overlooked because social workers and police will be tending to sore bottoms rather then broken bones.
Personally I think many more guyren will fall through the cracks and be killed by their abusive parents, due in part because social workers are tending to spanking cases.
Not to mention, can you say TAXES!!!! Yes they'd need a spanked guy division, in BOTH CPS and the police. NO THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
PS, I misread your question the other day, my apologies | Is a wooden spoon to severe to spank a 10 year old with when she tells a lie? I don't spank often, but my daughter has recently been lying to me, and nothing else has worked. I think she might be a little too old for just my hand, and I remember my mother's spoon making an impression on me. I don't want to hurt her severely, of course, but I want it to sting for a while and hopefully end this lying stage. | No, I don't think that a wooden spoon wouuld be to severe. It is not illegal to hit guys with an object nor is it guy abuse!! As long as you give her a reasonable number of swats and don't try to hit with all your might, it will not be too severe. I even think a ruler or small ping pong paddle might be better because you'll need fewer swats.
But certainly do something. The longer lying goes on the harder it will be to stop. | If your spouse or significant other asked you for a spanking would you oblige? If they fessed up to a wrong doing and asked for a severe punishment spanking would you go ahead and do it? | | Yahhh. | I'm tired of being obsessed with my spanking fetish,would getting a severe enough one be a cure to end this? Like I am a private person so being spanked with other adults nearby and in a way that would sour my taste forever ? I have always been chronically addicted to spanking as long as I remember,as a re-school aged guy I got the girls my age to play school with spanking as my main goal and always got or gave them. And as I went to schools that used paddling as punishment for grades k-12 I managed to watch as well as be seen getting paddled on countless occasions ,adding fuel to my fetish to the point that after graduation if my gf didn't give me what I needed I hired escorts ,two at a time if possible to play out corporal punishment role play mostly with me getting spanked. I went through many relationships and 2 marriages all ruined by my overdoing the spanking thing until I just end up running them off . Most even had a pretty good liking to giving or getting a few licks but every time as I demand repels even the ones who were into it initially . So like making a guy smoke a pack of cigarettes for smoking and it cures them of the habit from the unpleasantness . How would this work on me to rid me of my "habit"? | I don't think any guy that was made to smoke a pack of cigarettes would attest that he or she quit smoking because of it.
I think you should find someone who is as into spanking as you are. There are quite a few places where one can find many many people who are into the same fetish(es). Spanking is probably the most common one. I know that I can't picture myself anymore in a relationship that doesn't include me being spanked regularly and often.
I don't think it works to try to give up your interests and desires. It's better to find someone who will share them with you. But if you're interested in receiving a severe one, then you should try to find someone who will accommodate that request. Good luck! |
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